Should I send a proposal to her parents?

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Re: Should I send a proposal to her parents?

@Omer259

I am interested in the daughter of one my parents’ friends. So far, as I can tell the feelings are only one sided. However, on several occasions the parents of the girl have sent the signal that a proposal from our side would be received positively. In conversations with my parents, they have tried to encourage them to send a proposal with the understanding that the girl would accept any decision they make on her behalf. I have a feeling that the girl is not interested in me. This makes me very uncomfortable in pursuing this proposal any further, even though I know that her parents would accept me without any reservations. I do not want to put anyone in this situation where their parents are forcing them to marriage with a certain person without their wishes. I would like to know from all the single girls out there, what role do your parents have in deciding a life partner for you?. Would you accept the decision that they would make on your behalf , knowing that they would do their best to find an educated, good looking and financially secure husband for you.

That is very nice of you.

But do try to find out why she is not interested in you… if you can.

At any rate, you can go ahead with proposal.

This will give you a way to find out why she is not interested in you. If you find out you cannot change her mind nicely then just withdraw.