Should I say something?

[Siren]

Re: Should I say something?

@Fefe

I would tell him casually n not make a big deal out of it.

I see what where your sister is coming from by saying there is no reason to tell him, but I think there is, if he finds out later, which he probably will, then he will wander why you didn’t tell him before n think that you have something to hide whereas if you tell him now n r upfront about it at least you r being honest and showing you have faith in him. This desi mentality of sweeping everything under the carpet normally makes situations worse in the end.

How long have you been married? And what about your friend? Does she know about the rishta coming to you first.

Depending on the length of time, it may impact husbands reaction as he may say why didn’t you tell me before? How come your telling me now?

We’ve been married two years now AH. I just don’t want him to feel awkward. I’ve never lied to him about my past (I don’t have much of one…lol). He knows I’ve had several rishtas before he came into the picture, but he’s never met any of those guys and I worry about him feeling jealous for no reason. I’m weighing the chances of him finding out against the risk of him finding out from someone else.

Which friend? The girl is my husband’s friend and I have no idea if she knows. She asked us about him when she first got his rishta but I just pretended I didn’t know the guy.