aahmad...... that was harsh............ all my life I ve done everything I possibly can to satisfy my dad so he stays happy and Ive always been dependent on him, but now getting married is HUGEEE and I have to think about my future.... only onlyyyy if I could've talked to my husband before we got nikkahd I would have neverrrrrr said yes, Is it really my fault that my family didnt let me talk to him or give me a chance to get to know him?