Re: Should I or should I not?
If your heart and instinct say no then dont do it. You have enough reason- he drinks, you are not attracted to him etc
This might sound harsh but one day your dad wont be in this world anymore, and you will have to live with this man without his support.
You and your dad seem to have a good relationship, talk to him and tell him you dont like the fact he drinks and that they are demanding alot from you and you dont think you will be happy with him.