Should I or should I not?

not trying to sound like a buddi..but in the olden days our parents may not have been attracted 2 each other but still are happily married after 30-40 years....

with time attraction can begin..she doesnt even know the guy yet..physical attraction is not everything...

women do have a voice..and u shud speak up...but not once u have had a nikah and havent even given the guy a chance....come on!