Should I or should I not..date

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Judging from her post, *ish *means the S word :fatee:

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just as khumar said you are not missing anything by not dating,

wots the need to date??

you will get wat god has to give you , but at the time he wants u to have,

so wait for the right time and right person

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Btw, gupshupthisish, I don't understand why a non-muslim, non-pakistani man's opinion about you dating or not matter to you. My non-muslim friends/acquantainces are always shocked at the fact that I have never tasted alcohol, but does that make me wonder if I should start drinking or not? No, it doesn't.

Their shock and horror just means that they are not familiar with your culture and religion. It is your responsibility to make them understand, not change your own ideals and beliefs because someone is questioning them.

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but but but.. these non-muslims morphed into medium reverts halfway thru the thread. :\

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I'm awaiting guy 5, 6, and , 7's opinion on this matter before advice.

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I thought we only needed the recommendation of 4 out of 5 non-pakistani, non-muslim men?

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Give the girl a break. All she is saying there is no pakistani or muslim guy out there for her yet..... and time is running....

y start judging ??

I guess i at some point u could actually date a non muslim guy and see if he has interest in converting ;)
Im not saying pakistani guys are THE guys to be with, this world is crazy y do we want to b wid pakistani guys... sorry for generalising....
Look at the mess around you...u gota work ur ass off and take a lot of crap before you finally reach that point were ur 'happy'....

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Generalization alert !!!

Btw y do we pakistani men have such a nasty reputation as husbands, i mean c`mon we can be good, decent, loving , caring husbands as well, any ways coming to the OPs topic, Muhtarma all i would suggest is get the notion of dating out of the head as well as be a little broad minded when it comes to Rishta, desi men generally are dil pheink (GUILTY) and thus do have some sorta past but that is the past, it is really good for you that you dont but if you try and knit pick everything you will always find a flaw and no one is a 100%. I wont comment on the non-desi guy part since I am against inter-cultural marriages or even inter-faith but thats my opinion.

In the end PAKISTANI WOMEN please stop generalizing and hating on Pakistani Men :frusty:

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Thanks for your help.

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^ Go back and re-read post # 7 b/c my advice is the same.

BTW, if you just need to vent....we have a blog section just for that.

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ok thank you paheli00. should have check that out first.

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no idea what the new list of men has anything to do with the topic either. are you a closet atheist? if so, velcum. :flower1:

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[note]Per OP's request, thread closed. [/note]