Hello i know that i dont use to post her , but right now my life is a big mess and i need to let it out 
Today i came home very late from school and damn i was tired and hungry.Anyways i ate something and then later my bro and my mom started to argue and u know what i dident say sanything and she started to call me names and said its my fault that my bro is the way he is.He is always angry and when he talks to people he always talk angry , even he dosent do anything , beside his homework.And mmy mom said its my fault that my bro is the way he is , and u know my mom and me argue all the time and she blames everything on me. But today i really dident need to hear it , damnit i had a test in buisniss thingy and i had to use the computer on the test and i write so slow that the test went straight o hell, i had 3 assignments it dosent sound much but , but u had to do lot in every assignment , and when i was finish with the first i only had one hour left and to big assignments left , anyways i only did a lil part of the second assignment , when the teacher that we have to print out now.So u can say that the test went to hell and when i came home i was tired , had a headache and i was hungry , so i dident need my mom to start arguing with me for now reason.So later after i came home , we had to go somewhere and me and my mom started to argue in the damn car.And u can say it was my fault to , because i shouldent have shuted my mouth , when she started to argue.But i always say my opinions ansd when i do that she says that i am rude , but i am not , i only say what i mean.She started to call me ugly again and that i am bad gal as she always do.I have had it know , i am tired of us argueing all the time and she calling me mean things all the time.When we argue i do reply back , but i never say something bad like she does.Anyways i am tired of it and i am thinking on talking to my grandfather and move to him.My father says that the ways she is , but i am tired of hearing that ,that dosent exuse her.I am not sure if i should move to my grandfather this time , but i know this next time i will move out .That i swear .What should i do this time And when we fight we sometimes dont talk to each for one week or so and this time is going be like this.I am not going to apologise this time , it was her fault.Give me advice plzzz
she calls you ugly? What is she, in the elementary school or something.
Don't take it the wrong way, but is she your step mother?
My mom and I used to fight a lot when I used to live at home. I moved out for college, and that was that. I think when I left, it really hit her that I was really unhappy with my relationship with her.
After that, our friendship has really blossomed, ma'ashallah.
Sometimes, you need to leave. Although every case is individual, so I wouldn't advise you on leaving unless you're really ready for it.
I wouldn't suggest you moving out. I'm sure there must be times when she is very nice and loving towards you.
Keep in mind as we are growing up, our parents are growing old. Therefore, they often get cranky, plus they have their own mindset and a different way of perceiving things.
It's best you learn to stay quite and try not to talk back.
I shouldn't be making this assumption, but I feel you're short-tempered like myself. As a result, you end up talking back.
It was only after arguing with my parents for years that I learned it's best that I listen to what they have to say and respect their views and not talk back. I understand it is very difficult, but it's best that you get some sort of control over your temper right now than later.
It is no gurantee that we are going to get good bosses, co-workers, and spouses, etc. Hence, it's best not to be hotheaded and learning to control one's temper.
Everytime I talk back to my parents, it turns into a nasty argument, but whenever I listen and not talk back, it works out great alhamdulillah.
If you really think it's unbearable, make istikhara before moving out and living with your grandparents.
I'd rather live with my parents and keep up with what they have to say than to be living with anyone else.
If I'm not wrong, you must be in your early/mid teenage years?
It usually gets better once you are past 18-19 years of age.
^ i agree !
I’m not sure how old you are, but I’m going to assume you’re a teenager. Most of the advice given here is right, it DOES get better as you grow older. I used to fight a lot with my mother in high school, over the worst things, but we haven’t argued much for the longest time now. Sure, there are times we’re annoyed and stuff, and take it out on each other, but those days are far and few between now.
Don’t worry, inshallah things will be much better 
Thanks u guys and i have thought about and it am not moving this time.:) We will see what happend next time
i think that moving out may not work and it can rather create more problems.
its better u dont answer her at all.
u answer her back which makes her feel bad. no parent like their kids to reply them back specially in an argument. and even when u think that u are not rude and just clarify ur position things may just go wrong.
you seems to be in ur teens and there is rush of blood in teens when every rite looks wrong
work out with ur mom, make her feel special becuase its becuz of her u r what u r. do not forget that u were given birth by her and took all pain one have to bear with a small child.
Think over it. I have seen people crying over not taking care of their parents when they were alive and now they r no more.
Df i’m sending u a PM as well
i think no matter what keep ur attitude positive
and remember: ur mother gave birth to u
no matter what u think she loves u
and no matter what islamically u have to respect ur mother and also be obedient to her
and i know how diffficult it is but try to be good and avoid fighting, arguing waghera, even if u get angry, try to control urself
and have faith in Allah, inshallah sab theek ho jaye ga
and no dont leave home coz that would be something too major and it will hurt everyone and overall it wont prove to be good for u in the long run either, its best to stay with ur family.
so instead of getting affected by it, try to become a positive force and influence things for the better.