Should I have boy friend?

Lifestyle Relationships
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i think u should have one. It's fun

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yea ofcourse but make sure u dont give it up that easily. Make ur bf work for it, let him take u out, buy u expensive stuff. Be a true woman :k:

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exactly. Dont do anything intimate with him. Get everything u want out of the relationship like nice shoes and clothes, then dump him and move on the next guy.

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Babe, i don't know if you're ready for a boyfriend right now but
if and when you ever are. . . why stop at one when y ou can have many? ?? Count them, conquer them, collect them and then do it all over again. :)

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and dont forget to experiment with girlfriends. :thumbsup:

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lol collect them. I know. You should be busy every night of the week, with a different guy each day. Then u know which to lose and which to keep

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:omg:

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Well maha, i think every girl has the same, but if u think deeply, u will find out that life without boyfriend is much easier than having one, u will get several questions in your head like: What if my parents will know about it, What if something happends... to be honest.. sometimes when u see a couple, u get the feeling like Why dont i have a boyfriend.. I have got the feeling many times, BUT at the same time i am so happy that i never had a boyfriend .. Caus no one ever talks bad things about me, they all know that i have never had a boyfriend, so they respect me, never ever had a friend of mine said to me WHY DONT U HAVE A BOYFRIEND GO AND GET ONE, if a friend says that to u, sorry too say but they cant call themself ur friend .. I've seen with my own eyes, how many friends of mine had so many boyfriends, its not that they did anything bad, but they are not serious, and i think if u go for a relationship just because some friends force u to, that relationship can never be a long relationship.. aur naam kiska badnaam hoga? Tumhara! no friend of urs will come and help u .. u will be embaressed in own place .. well maha too be honest i dont think u are clever enough, cuz u listen to your friends.. my opinion is Dont listen to them ,just give them a hard and straight answer NO! i dont want a boyfriend cuz u girls say that .. baaqi .. its ur live decide by urself what u want .. i was just explaining, cus i have had the same feelings too .. but i am glad i never ever listened too my feelings.. :)

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See, men are like a nice pair of heels. They're beautiful when they're new. But after a while, they're just nothing but a pain in the asss :D

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lol u girls are hillarious :rotfl:

I agree with SolarOceans, why stop at one when you canhave many?

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very well said zaima

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im pretty sure u've made ur decision already.

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I agree with this 100% please don't get a bf its against Islam and u will disrespect ur parents, they gave birth to u and raised u. I know girls who do stuff like that, they have given their parents alot of pain.

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:biggthumb:

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i think its a friend who happens to be a boy....am not sure though try the oxford dictionary i heard reading that is fun.

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No, you shouldn't have a boy friend. I assume u r a muslim, and there's no bf/gf allowed in Islam.

Quit those friends suggesting/forcing u for this, and look for other girls having good character. One must be very careful on choosing friends and the envt. he/she lives in. These things eventually will have impact on you.

Those girls/boys who keep multiple bfs/gfs, they are at the stage that they have lost their purity and have nothing to loose anymore. So ANY girl/boy (and any number of them) doesn't matter to them. You should not listen to those loosers. You still have your purity, good record of A'amaal, and you must keep it up. In case of playing with boys, you never know you might end-up with a really crook/wicked guy ..... and u'd be no more "cutest" after that.

You should know that Allah (swt) has promised in Quran that He will test all of us in this world (through shortness of wealth, problems in health, etc. etc.). You should consider this as a TRIAL for you, that u r being examined whether you are getting involved in this filth of bf or remain steadfast. Also it is mentioned in Quran that "Pure women are for pure men, and impure women for impure men".

** People with stronger/better Imaan go through longer and severe trials** as compared to those with weaker Imaan. And in the end there is much better reward for those who remain steadfast. You should not forget that:

"Innallah-a Ma'assaabireen" ===> Verily, Allah is with those who remain steadfast (on the right path).

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People can not go against the laws of nature. If they are unduly enjoying one thing at some time, they will be paying the price for that later in some other form. For example, those who drink alcohal, get enormous fun while drinking but it DOES damage their health/liver, relationships etc. Those who eat beyond limits also pay its price later. Same is with bf/gf thing. It is not always the case one will have a successful life with her bf. Sometimes it works, but in many cases it doesn't work and there is a big loss on your side then. So don't take that risk. Don't think it is a fun.

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Tis is such a cute thread :)

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lol.

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Sallam,

Vow vow I never expected that I’ll get so much friends on GS. Especially some of my bajies scold me as hard as I never get scold from my parents. But I know they did b coz they care not only for me but for all Muslims girls. I didn’t say I’m gonna make boy friends. I was just asking from u. One of GS member raise good point that ur friends force u to do this. I’ll say no but u know if u hear 24 hours damn stories from ur friends then what u’ll do ? I don’t know whats the exactly meaning of BF but it didn’t mean that my all friends have lost their purity. I really take care these kinda things. But u know everyone meant to get a person who just care of u, who think abt u and with him u’ll share ur every thing. I’ve great understanding with my many cousins but there are some limits which I never cross. My parents never put restriction on me to do or not to do. But I think I got this from my cute grainee who always advise me. I can’t do marriage as I’m studying and don’t ve wish to get married soon. I’ve my profile on other groups as well but I think this group is nicer as u get response on ur posts.

I’m sorry if someone get hurt that a Muslim girl showing this kinda behavior but I was just looking that should I should I not …………… Anyway don’t worry friends and especially my caring Bjaies that I’ll not do this InshaAllah and will concentrate on other things to divert my –ve thinking ……………..
Again Thanks for all of you ….

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Walikum Assalam. Pleased to read that you have come to the right conclusion after seeking help and advice. :)