Re: Should I go with him?
My wife is a “bird” - she cannot be caged (metaphor). Any attempt to do so will cause problems … I’m trying to work out solutions to work from home by starting up my own business and employing others, but it is a slow process and she is going spare in the wait … and I am getting targeted with much of the despair and sometimes I can’t absorb it and sometimes I give some back … which is why I apologise on a regular basis … LOL … I hope she finds more strength soon … In a funny sort of way what she says makes sense … when she is happy she relies on me … but then she realises that she does not want to be dependent and that gives her the feeling of being caged and hence she pushes me away in order to be able to stand on her own feet … but I keep saying that she can stand up and fly without pushing me away … 