Should I go or not?

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Re: Should I go or not?

I dont see thr issue hereU didnt get i vited to the barat and the valima ure still not invited to.... The guy's family hasnt invited u... Its ure mil that is saying come... Did everyone else get a card? I wouldnt go if i wasnt invited by the actual ppl behind the wedding.... aisay tho koi bhi bol de ke ajao .... Doesnt mean im welcome... If i was, i would have gotten an invite

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Re: Should I go or not?

OK guys, here is the latest.

Hubby pops round to see the kids as per normal. MIL does not some because the wedding party have come from the bride's area and are staying at MIL's house for the walima as it's near MIL's house.

So I told hubby that as I was not formally or informally invited to the baraat, then it does not seem right that I go to the walima, invited or not and that even though me and him have had our differences, I STILL should have been invited, regardless of whether or not I attend or not.

So I said that I should not really go if there is no proper invite from the grooms side as we don;t know them and it would be embarassing for me to turn up. I told him that we'd be very late in getting back and there is school on Tuesday etc etc and that it would not be OK for me to come with the kids. He understood and the kids didn't want to go either.

There are no hard feelings and I'm sure the bride's family would understand.

Thank you for your thoughts and suggestions x

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Re: Should I go or not?

be the bigger person and go. who cares if you got invited to the baraat or not, you are invited to the walima. Go,mingle a bit, enjoy the food and leave :)

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Re: Should I go or not?

Go

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Don't go !

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It was his niece's wedding and they didnt invite you at THEIR place then why would you go to her in-laws without any invitation. Even if her in-laws would've invited you, It's pointless to go. For its Niece who's a relative not her in-laws...You shouldn't go!