Should I feel insecure?

[Princess1983]

Re: Should I feel insecure?

@Decent_6Chora

I do not think so. Its all about caring…caring for family. She might be feeling neglected because she is comparing herself with his family which is wrong thing to do. Now that i have said it, I m feeling neglected to as I m not getting same attention from begum as my kids r getting

It maybe ‘wrong’ in some peoples opinion yes however when you are planning your future and you are missing your OH it can cause problems because the missing partner wonders what position they actually hold in their partners life. It’s not a tall request to be given a position in your husbands life.

The OP as far as I can tell isn’t expecting her husband to neglect his duties as a son. She simply wants to feel secure in the relationship and have some ‘freedom’ without being shot down when she makes a request for things like say money for jewellery etc. If your husband won’t let you work and you are struggling to get on with the family it all adds to the fire.

As for your attention problem with begum-think of it LIKE this. The kids are 50% yours 50% begum-yes? So 50% of you is actually getting attention. Voila problem sorted No need to start a new thread to thank me bhai; a simple like will do.