Re: Should I feel insecure?
Oh I didn’t realise. I suggested OP work to show she is fully capable of looking after herself if said husband won’t do it. I take that back considering situ.
I seriously think OP needs to chat with husband. She deserves to know where she stands in the grand scale of things. If there is no “us” to speak of I seriously think you need to sit down and have a long think about what YOU want with life.
As I said before a lot of parents would be mortified to find out their child was living a life that wasn’t of the quality anyone would want for anyone.
And if your husband is unable to balance both relationships perhaps he isn’t ‘ready’ for a marital relationship yet?