Should I feel insecure?

[Sara516]

Re: Should I feel insecure?

@saggirl

It sounds like a little girl wrote this, no offence. Maybe it is just the way you wrote it out. He cares about his parents a lot. He sounds like a good man. There is nothing for you to be insecure about. Don’t think twice about it.

Little girl? Fatty baldy ugly doggy? Really?

Honestly, after your posts about your fiance and the angry sex, I think you’re the last person to dispense advice.

@BusyBee

         So my main question.....**I don't even know if I love him anymore like I used to**. I'm only with him to not hurt my family and mainly bcoz I don't see myself living w/o him even though there's not the same type of love/passion anymore. I don't know how to explain. So yeah finally, do you guys think I should even feel "secure" with this man? His plans rarely involve me, he doesn't like to spend much money on me (although with much pleading from me he SOMETIMES gives in, that too if something is less than $200), he tells me to my face that his parents are more important and he can leave me for them, etc.
        I feel so insecure with him now emotionally and financially. Am I right  to feel insecure or am I being childish?

Whether it’s insecurity or whatever, the fact of the matter is that that’s how you feel and…life’s too short to feel that way for the rest of your life.

Either you work it out, communicate to him how you feel…or walk away knowing you tried your very best.

I’ve learned that sometimes, for your own sanity and happiness, you have to be willing to be the “bad guy.”

I’ve been following your posts, so maybe my comments may not make sense to others, but he doesn’t let you work, he doesnt let you do anything, your in laws treat you like garbage. Why are you with him??