As someone wrote earlier, I don’t think your feelings are baseless. I would feel the same way if my husband brought up his parents like that…especially when the parents are young (48, 54) and do not have any major health issues. That being said…
Why are you trying to have a baby with a man when you don’t feel secure with him emotionally and financially? If he has told you that he can leave you for his parents and doesn’t mention anything about a future baby when talking about a major move (in effect making you feel very insecure), then what makes you think bringing a baby in this marriage is a good idea?
As for having to plead with him for money…do you not work? Again, if you don’t feel secure in this marriage, I would imagine you’d want to work and save up for yourself so in case he leaves you one day, you have means to take care of yourself.
Why are you trying to have a baby with a man when you don’t feel secure with him emotionally and financially? If he has told you that he can leave you for his parents and doesn’t mention anything about a future baby when talking about a major move (in effect making you feel very insecure), then what makes you think bringing a baby in this marriage is a good idea?