Should I continue the friendship....

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Re: Should I continue the friendship…

@broken1

Hi everyone!
Please help me on the below :(.
I became friends with a guy around 2 months back. When i first spoke to him, i instantly liked him. I felt he is the kind of guy i always wanted in life. Right from beginning till now, we have been continuously chatting with each other through whatsapp, facebook, phone and have met thrice. I felt i have started developing feelings for him. With his behaviour, i thought he liked me too, so i did confess to him that i liked him more than friends. But he was like, he likes me too but only as a friend. He was like, what i was feeling was natural human tendency and said better we dont bring love in between. He said we should just enjoy each other’s company as friends only, and said he does not want to play with my feelings now and later just say sorry. So i told him better we end the friendship so that things should not get more complicated for me. But he said if the friendship ends, he would be lonely, and said lets continue being good friends and said he wants us to become best friends to each other. Though i am still friends with him, i feel i still have a hope that he may change his mind and see me as more than a friend, though i feel it may never happen as he acts completely cool about it when i tell him to find a good guy for me and he says he would look within his friend circle, though it is him who i like.
So, shall i end this friendship completely with him to avoid being more hurt or should i continue being friends with him? Plssss suggest :(.

If you’ll always want to be more than friends with him then you’ll have to let him go. He’ll obviously never see you as anything more than that. The only reason he still wants you to be his friend right now is purely a selfish reason and I suggest you don’t get stuck in this trap. In all honesty, I wouldn’t put myself through it. You’re just gonna get more attached to him and in the end he’ll move on anyway without giving you a single thought and you’ll be stuck trying to get over him.

At least you tried to tell him how you feel, so there’s no wondering "what if"in the future.