Re: Should i be worried?
May be its just communication gap. ............ in desi culture husband and wife are two separate doors of same house that never really come close .... i mean as friend. Wives scare husbands away so they close up and never share their own fears ... yes they have frears too :)
Try to relax and not think about baby. Work on your relationship with him instead. It will happen IA
Re: Should i be worried?
no u shudnt be worried
i think u shud seduce him 
Re: Should i be worried?
why would you ask him to make baby when he is in fever/down with flu. Chill girl! Develop a good relationship with him, get to know each other more, enjoy each other, it has been only two months since you got married.
Re: Should i be worried?
I agree with the others saying he might not be ready for a baby. Sit him down and ask him what he really feels about this.
I know having baby fever can be hard. I wanted a baby as soon as we were married and I was still so young. Even though I love my baby to death I now feel that I should've waited at least 2 years before having kids. You need to enjoy being with your husband, strengthen that miyan biwi bond before you think of welcoming a little one into your lifes. It will make it so much easier to care for the baby when you know your spouse in and out and he knows you.
But if you really really want a baby and think both of you are ready for that responsibility then maybe you guys should relax a bit. Don't think of it as "trying" to conceive. Don't try, but at the same time don't prevent. Just don't think about it and have fun. It shouldn't become a chore.
Re: Should i be worried?
just make him come to you
^If ya know what i mean. Your husband is probably stressed about job and other stuff. My suggestion yo..is make sex fun and it doesn't have to be for the intention of baby only.
Re: Should i be worried?
I got married last year in february.me and my husband both decided on trying for a baby after one year or so...now its been two months that i have been asking my hubby that i want baby now.but the problem is that since i asked my husband for this, he does not co-operate with me.i agree that he is extremely busy (as he says) but in the last two months it was just one time that we actually tried for that.i asked him y dun u co-operate with me?dont u want a baby? and he always says,"i want it but wait for a few days,let me be free, bla bla"..sometimes he says i am busy and i don't feel like doing s**.and its true,he is busy but not taking out a little time for me,does that make sense?then this month,during my ovulation days he had fever and flu,so he said "i am ill and i cant make up my mind right now". i am worried,really worried.Many things wander in my mind.what do u people suggest? what should i do?Should i understand that these are not excuses and he is really stuck?should i wait for one more month so that he gets free?Please give me sincere advice.thanks.
husband & wife are for eachother where a man understands his wife and vice versa. The baby you are trying to have will just not be yours, but his too.. and its necessary to have a baby when BOTH of you are ready. Here, you are being mean.. Don't be. Its not necessary that he says you bluntly that I dont need a baby right now maybe because he doesnt want to hurt your feelings, but you should understand him. Remember, never DRAG something when your husband says NO instead waiting for the right time. Seems you annoy him too. Don't do it and leave it on Allah. He will decide the right time for you, not you. Understand your husband! Maybe he is not interested in s-- because he thinks everytime you are doing it, you have nothing but just a baby in your mind!! seriously! make your husband enjoy rather annoy!! Things will work good later, inshAllah. Dont worry. and yeah, leave discussing this topic wwith your husband.. you will see him coming back to the track soon ;)