should I be offended?

Re: should I be offended?

Seemed doesn’t necessarily mean she was…especially if you communicated with her via phone/email were you can’t see her facial expressions. Maybe it’s not her…maybe it’s her hubby who prefers to be by himself while she’s on her trip. Or maybe she feels that when SHE is at home…it’s easier for her to handle guests (you, relos, others) since it’s usually women who take care of the cooking and see to the comfort/hopsitality of the guest…and she thought that her husband would feel uneasy managing things on his own and wanted to make things easier for him as well. That’s a possibility.

It’s not the worst thing in the world, GF. It can be seen as generous for one to let someone stay with them for a month…and it’s only 2 more weeks that you’ll have to deal with.

You can guess and make us guess as to why she wants you to leave after a month…but you wron’t really know unless you talk to her. You can consider doing that…talking to her nicely about the matter. You’d have to be careful not to offend or she may not even let you stay the one month. And there’s also the possibility that she may not be completely honest with you.