Re: should i be mad?
okay, so you expect her not to be mad when you don't invite her over, but you flip out when she does the same to you. Well, if that's not pot calling the kettle black, I don't know what is.
Quite frankly, this whole thing reeks of "fat aunty politics". I don't agree with this hisaab kitab thing, it just seems so childish. I suggest you grow up and stop taking these stupid things so seriously. Invite her over once, cuz your cousin seems like the person who needs to be courted 6 months prior to an invitation with flowers, mithai, and jewelery (did I spell it correctly) before her highness will grace her presence unto your humble home. If she still doesn't invite you to her next function, just take a chill pill and relax. It's not that important.