no you should not be happy.its always confusing.islam gives the best solution of this matter but we have to follow the rigid joint family system of hindus or altogether change the country or city just to find peace and independence away from the parents.sadly parents become controlling powers or be alone without their kids around.islam gives a solution where household systems are separate but famililes can live together.even a small house can have a separate kitchen which is biggest issue normally,separate servants but you are there around to be available for one another.but ppl say “loog kiya kahane gay kitchen alaag hey”.but ppl use to be ok when sons get immigrations just to be away from parents and to have peace of mind of them and their wives.parents should also think that they have rights on their sons not over their daughter in laws.its a rishta of ehsan for them.atleast we can have clear minds if we