should i be happy...

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Re: should i be happy…

@redvelvet

If your husband has made up his mind that you all will definitely be moving back to England and he’s not budging from his decision…just take this as being Allah’s current plan for you, Nadz…as opposed to over-thinking yet another situation. Maybe there is good/behtri in this move…maybe it will result in greater peace for ALL persons involved, but they’re just not aware of it now. Sometimes we realize things down the road. I don’t think you’re the sole reason behind his decision, he more than likely considered the happiness of other parties as well. At some point in the future, who knows…your in-laws might come live with you again…and if/when they do, think about how you can do things differently to make life easier for yourself (such as ignoring/letting some things slide, etc).

your username makes me want to bake cupcakes…

nadz - be happy. maybe he will be happy once back to the UK as well, cus he will be coming home every day to a happy wife!!