Should I ask him out?

Lifestyle Relationships
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Okay here’s the deal and I’m serious..I thinking of asking the guy I like out.

Here’s what I’m gonna say…

“Mr.X will you join me for dinner this Wednesday, yes I am asking you out and yes it will be a date. Yes I do like and respect you and yes it will be my treat. All I expect is your company and you’re not obliged to give me a good night kiss, it’s just an opportunity for me to get to know you better, and an excuse to spend an entire evening with you. So what do you say? Be honest I’d like to hear the truth.”

Should I go for it?

shaking like a leaf

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Awwwwwwww...so adorable....go for it girl...but try not to be too formal...

Last person to answer this post wins!!!!
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I have the guts to ask him, but you;re sayin I shoudl be less formal? Like how?

Shucks I have a feeling I'm gonna change my mind tomorrow.

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yeh just be like...wanna check out this rest. really good food there.

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Relax!It's gonna be fine...Best of luck in advance!

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Do it, you don't want to live in regret.

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^ I can’t use that one coz he knows I don;t go out much and he’s been to like every rest in town :-/

belle - I thought I;d wait till we graduate…maybe I will, but I so feel like asking him now! I;m s friggin impatient

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i'd wait till graduation (not that i date, but if i did)..cuz ima chicken..and atleast if he says no..i can be like..oh look we graduated..i never have to see you again.

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LOL! Razea that's perfect you're a smart woman!

But I still wanna get it out of my head! Have some peace of mind, coz if he ain;t interested then I can find other fish to fry :D

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Just casually ask him out LK, That way if he refuses you dont feel awkward.

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wow that brings back memories…except i did it in an email, like a scared lil punk :bummer:

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Why do you have to call it a 'date'? Just tell the guy I would like to know you better..let's meet...it would work for me (ahem). It doesn't work on women though...The women needs to know whether it is a date or not. What gives.

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LK… here’s what you should do… you can always count on your little brother Madhanee for a good advice.

No need to make it so friggin gory… Just pick up the phone, and ask him…hey, what are you doing tomorrow (keep your composure on the phone)…if you are free; let’s go out for dinner. It will be fun to have a dinner together and chat up a little.

That’s all you need to do…don’t use a dolphin for a bait.

This one should be purely dinner-date… only food and politics, or discussion on movies books. second date can be more social issues, e.g., place of women in Arab societies… third date can be the above two + hey, you are really cool and I enjoy your company…

Just take it slow.

:kiss:

:jhanda:

::: Aaj meri aazaadi khatam ho rahi hai :::
::: Aaj meri aazaadi khatam ho rahi hai :::
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Well I knwo what you guys are saying, and yes Fayz, girls like to know if it’s a date coz then we know if we have to go (if we’re interested) or we don;t have to go (if we’re not interested).

So yeh I take him out, and talk like we always talk, coz we’ve been out for coffee several times, and it’s been just pally wally and I CAN’T take it anymore, and I’;m already flattered the man, ohh you’re a real sweetheart, I really like your company…I dunno, maybe he is just NOT interested.

I sooo wanted to go for tennis..i.e the Dubai open and told him and he said rather softly “I might be going if I do i’ll let you know” and then nothing, but I;m almost sure he went yesterday for the finals coz he came to class and then left sayin “I gotta rush” with a big smile on his face (he prolly landed free tickets)

I need to pray about this a bit. I was praying and I remembered that sometimes you need to take a leap of faith, just do it and God takes care of the rest…

Madhanee - yaar I know nothing about politics, however books and films I can handle but when I’m with him I usually get all scilent coz he has this amazing voice that turns me into goo and I get all :love: :blush: :love:

Damn I should be concentrating on my career! :smack:

but I guess you’re right, asking him out for a casual dinner is better than me cutting my heart out and handing it to him…

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go for it! good luck :k:

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hmmm LK whatever you decide, keep us posted. I just hope he isn't a bas-turd (like 99% of men are)

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So you have passed the ‘getting to know’ stage. If he were interested, he would have taken you to the tennis match. You are a smart girl…can’t you tell if the guy is interested or not? I’d be the last person to ask a girl out if she gives me a cold shoulder.
And damn right! concentrate on your career…it sounds like you are in love every other day :mocking:

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Fayz on Gupshup I;m in love everyday, in real life I think this is the very first time I;ve ever felt this drawn to someone. Ohh and he called today tellin me how he wishes he had the chance to go see the tennis and he’s sooooo busy, and no he hadn’t gone to the finals. some emergency at work. :bummer:

Today was the first time he called up for no reason what so ever, the first time he asked me about my day, how I was feeling and what I was wearing, asked me if I had lunch and what kinda music I listened to.

Must be all the praying I did last night…:D…I’m gonna wait till I graduate, but for some reason today was very different, seemed as if he had called up to ask me out, but I was in such a hurry for class. :mad: I’ll call him up tomorrow…

If this was a crush believe me I’d be bored by now, all teh other guys I;ve been attached to (courtesy of my folks) are guys I just became close to over time after gettin to knwo them, but that SPARK didn;t happen, I loved them and cared about them and was committed and loyal in teh hope that one day it will turn into a full blown love affair.

But with thsi guy it’s so different I can TALK to him, when we’re in conversation it’s invigorating, I learn somethign new from him and he learns somethign new from me…

Fayz course I;m a smart gal, but he’s a very smart man, and a good one and I knwo he’s not infavour of gettin into a relationship coz of hs business, but I wish there was a way i coudl BOOK him for teh future when he is ready, i guess I just have to hang out with him long enough, stick with him through it, he’s not giving me false hopes, yet i knwo when he calls everyother day with the stupidest of excuses to strike up conversation, i know i knw that he likes me.

It’s just the matter of knowing WHEN the right time will come. i like him enough to ask him out, and am ready to take a risk to do it, but in my haste I mustn’t lose my sense of practicality and forget that no is NOT a good time for him.

As busy as he is, and he is indeed very busy he does find time in teh day to call me up, and i never call him, never, coz early in teh morning on his way to work on while munching on lunch he calls me up.

I just want to be there for him..and I think for teh time being that’s what I’ll do, even if it is as a friend.

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**You *are going to ask him for a date just to eat **dates* in the Dubai desert...and after eating dates, you think you will have some desert...forget it! Please don't do that...please...please... :D

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