sajid20
December 11, 2011, 8:29pm
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Re: Should i approach him again?
So, recently i broke up with this guy whom i had met through a matrimonial site.We both did meet a couple of times.I did do Istikhara regarding him and i got good feelings.He was quite serious for marriage but i couldn’t get him a date as of when his parents could visit our home with proposal as i was having a fight with my parents regarding not marrying my cousin, which is now solved
So, i happened to make him wait for some 5-6 months,and the outcome of which turned out to be this that,he told me he wasn’t happy with me,and that i was not serious,and he said he didn’t want to continue any further.First i tried reasoning with him,but things started getting really bad.and when he again talked about breakup,i agreed to it right away,without arguing.Though i know,whatever happened,the entire mistake was mine.After 3 days of breakup,i sent him an apology email.But he didn’t reply back at all.
I believe he was a good guy,and it was my foolishness to lose a wonderful guy like him.Shall i approach him again,asking for a chance?even if we may decline, but i would be satisfied thinking that, at least i tried? Would it be a good step?
I ain’t expert but as far as i know boys, they usually fed up with their love/friend soon and search for another one. sorry but you would see v few people who really love a person sincerely.