Should I accept him?

Re: Should I accept him?

Shouldn’t be a big deal right? It’s not only that however. It’s all these things combined, he buys them expensive gifts and things like that. Often goes swimming with women (and men obviously) but for a girl like me, yes MA I’ve been brought up modern and what not, but isn’t this a little too extreme? Or is this type of thing just accepted in the western world? The main reason I posted this question was to get some experiences from women who have married someone quite western.