Re: Should I accept him?
I know i’m not a girl…but it seems to me you have two issues with him…
- His Party life style (which he portrays through Social Media)
- His Spending habits
The second spending habits..I would ask the basic questions regarding money and marriage
What is important to each of you to spend money on? What kind of lifestyle do you ultimately want to cultivate?
Do you have any out standing loans, are you a saver or a spender?
What is his source of income and is it sustainable…?
Just because he is a sincere guy doesn’t mean you guys won’t fight about money in the future. So its important to determine this..
His party lifestyle might the image he wants to portray of himself…but if its an issue I would bring that up with him as well… “Don’t put yourself in a situation that will cause controversy”
A friend of mine would do this constantly, he was ‘religious’ but would also go out and about and put him self in situations that were “questionable”… Of course he doesn’t drink and smoke but if you’re constantly going into that area its only a matter of time peer pressure or potential “accidents” can occur…Of course that doesn’t mean they do…but people will talk and the damage might be done irregardless if you did it or not..
good luck..