Should husbands have a choice to ?

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Re: Should husbands have a choice to ?

@htmwrites

From what i know of desi men, they wouldn’t agree to this situation to begin with.

But in a hypothetical universe…nah, motherhood is my job, providing for us is his job. That’s how Allah meant for it. Don’t get me wrong, I am a feminist and i do believe in equal rights..but that only goes as far as say, both want to work or both want to stay at home. It is not a woman’s job to provide for the bread and butter (unless it’s a situation where say the man is disabled, then yes..i woman should and must step up and take care, no two thoughts on that). But when everything is alright, then i don’t get why a man would want to sit at home? Heck, i’m a woman and i like being able to do both, have a job and take care of a family.

If anything, the question is, how many men and women are willing to work in conjunction, have a job and come home to take care of children equally? Both working in the kitchen to prepare a proper meal? Both cleaning up the house together? That’s where it’s at. at least for me.

So does that mean women who don’t work outside the house SIT at home? Would you say the same about SAHMs?