Should he move out?

[Reha]

Re: Should he move out?

@Hassan007

I think you pointed out correctly when you said that his parents are in fear of losing him. But my question is losing for what?. He has done so much for the family in his past life. He started his school very late and the only reason was that he was supporting his family and bring money home. Now that he has accomplished and now wants to move ahead and do whatever he wants to do in life. And talking about daughter in law…his parents started to think that the girl he likes influenced his decision and making him “rebellious”. Which is un-true because poor girl supported him in good and bad..both. But now, he wants to take a stand and live a life he wants to live.

He is their elder son…his parents are depending on him to be their sahara as our culture says. They are in fear of losing his mind and heart to her…not his money. Money comes and goes…its their son they’re worried over.

Moving out is a big deal…for both parents and sons. What he needs to do is involve his parents in his decisions. Live close to them and show them he wont be leaving them. Once they see his practical application, they will feel better.

If he really wants to move out, he shouldnt wait until after marriage…this should be done before so inlaws dont develop animosity towards their DIL for no reason. He should get a place close by, come over often, help out around the house, do things for them, etc and show them he isnt going anywhere.