Should he move out?

[Hassan007]

Re: Should he move out?

@Reha

I think his parents are scared of losing him.

Most of the time parents think ke larka haat se nikal jayega aur humari nahin sunega. Which is true until the age of 25 or so I believe. Its not fair to the guy to be treated like a baby now. It hinders his growth as well as his future family.

Maybe he needs to stand up to them while he is living with them in order to get them used to his independance. Once they get used to him doing things his way…moving out might not be such a shock.

I will say this though:

Its not just about parents. Its also about the kids and how they treat their parents. If parents are being made to feel like they have no rights towards their children…it causes rifts. It also creates a huge issue for future DILs because they are seen as the causes.

So, moving out is a great thing…yes. However, it doesn’t mean he can just do anything and everything he wants. Sometimes moving out means listening even more so because people are much more sensitive.

It will depend greatly on how maturely he handles the situation.

I think you pointed out correctly when you said that his parents are in fear of losing him. But my question is losing for what?. He has done so much for the family in his past life. He started his school very late and the only reason was that he was supporting his family and bring money home. Now that he has accomplished and now wants to move ahead and do whatever he wants to do in life. And talking about daughter in law…his parents started to think that the girl he likes influenced his decision and making him “rebellious”. Which is un-true because poor girl supported him in good and bad..both. But now, he wants to take a stand and live a life he wants to live.