bf of 10yrs sara n truly he is a sweet guy at heart..
& no guys im not pushing him at all i love n adore his mom n his family id never ever do tht but at this point i duno wht to do at all thts y posted the question here.he keeps asking me wht he shld do cuz he feels so lost n i dun have an answer myself..wht sheyn said is something i feel frm my heart is right but wht ps squared said is the practical way to go,whch again dosnt mean he will go but to atleast continue his process..i still duno wat i should tell him but i feel ill ask him to continue his process...i love him tooo much, i just cnt see him in so much stress...i wish i could help more :(
How about you ask him to continue the application process? If, after a year, he feels like he needs to continue to be with his mom, then he can request the university to defer his matriculation by a year or two?