Re: should he go??
and to answer the question...if he leaves right now, then no. Yo can make many plans for the future, but nobody knows what can happen today, or tomorrow. God forbid, if he doesnt get a chance to make it all up to her later, he will probably feel resentment at himsefl, and everyone who pushed hm to go and lose out on this time with his mother.
Money can be made later, cant make up for time with parents.