Re: should a guy GO?
The guy should definitely go, regardless of whether he is interested or not. The worst thing for any girl or her family to endure is a guy's family coming alone to inspect the merchandise. It's beyond inconsiderate for the guy not to show up and the family to show his photo instead of actually bringing him along. It's different if he's out of the country, but if he is able to go, there is no reason why he should not be present .... especially if the guy and girl already know that they like each other.