shopping problem

lets say your going abroad to pakistan just to do shopping for your wedding and a few other families turn up and they want to do shopping for everyday wear, would it frustrate you?

and has it ever happened that because of them you had problems in doing your wedding shopping?

i believe that because your going to do shopping for your own weding and its the only time you can do so and then other people who were not going to go pakistan to do shopping anyway but just decided to go because they can spend time with you and get tehir shopping done is quite annoying. Its like why cant you go another time or if your going then i will go another time. Because when more than one person goes you cant get your shopping done.

and that person who goes abroad to do shopping for their wedding, tehir journey is wasted and cant get their shopping done for their wedding. its inconsiderate really

what do you people think, has anyone ever experienced such problems?

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You let them know that you are here to shop for your wedding stuff and can't spare time for their shopping. Simple!

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What a strange hypothetical situation

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so they go shopping with u......u get to buy your stuff....they get to buy their stuff......whats the problem?

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Looks like someone got their thunder stolen on their big wedding shopping day.

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Happens quite often, its usually families who don't go to Pakistan often, if at all

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aisa kaam koi bohat hi pyari bhabhi hi kar sakti hay :D

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lol @ the topic

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no seriously, are you getting married? just asking so I can prepare myself for Nadaz reloaded threads....

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@ OP , It is your fault you should not have gone to the same city for your wedding shopping where you have people who care for you and want to enjoy the wedding shopping experience with you. You could go to some city where none of your relatives live and stay in a hotel , complete your wedding shopping in peace.

By the way , how old are you ? Still a teenager ?

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I never experienced such issue but I cannot believe that people can be so selfish or self centered. This is obviously your moment and they need to make sure that your shopping gets the priority.

I say, ignore such people. If by any chance these are the people who are paying for your shopping then get hold of their credit card and then ignore such people

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I don't konw anyone who's rich enough that they tag along on a trip to Pak just to go shopping

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It happened with me. I had only 2 weeks in pakistan to do my wedding shopping, my elder sis went along and each time I wanted to do my shopping, she would be doing her (first) and she would chit chat with the shopkeepers and waste a lot of time... and in the end get no suit or just one... very annoying.

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Why would it bother you if other people come with you to do their shopping? Like you won’t be the only one shopping in those shops? Especially if pakistan is anything to go by? I would be happier if i had people to join me shopping for an important day because you get more opinions on things and a lot more help? I don’t really see this as a problem really? :confused:

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^ Depends on your shopping style, some people like to shop alone and in Pak that's not an option. so if someone is coming for their own shopping, it can be kinda annoying.

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I don't see what is stopping you from doing your shopping. You cannot always control other people or your environment but you can control your own thought.