Friendly sahib,
Naraz nahi hoa tha.. Believe me when I speak to my American colleagues or am in discussion with them, I get offended when they mention the word fundamentalist, I say it on their face that the media is biased, why was it that David Qurash(of Texas) wasn't referred as christian extremist/fundamentalist ... i can tell you that if you ask average muslim why there is a punishment of cutting fingers for stealing they would just say that because thats in Islam, whereas when one American mentioned that and said thats inhumane, I told them that qualification for that punishment is that Government must be able to provide clothing/food and shelter for every citizen before it can implement that strict punishment.. you see the logic.....
As for saudi scholars, I can't say anything since I haven't had chance to know about them. As for shias "kafir" issue, let me tell you a story when Iranian president Rafsanjani went to Mecca to meet Saudi officials. Due to some prior arrangement he wasn't able to attend Juma prayers under the Immaat of Kaba's Imam, at which that Imam said in his Khutba that Shias are such and such, upon learning that Rafsanjani cut his trip short, when asked why?, he asked Saudi Government that if shias are such and such according to your Kaba's Imam, then in that case why don't you guys declare us "Kafirs" and be done with the whole issue of bickering. The outcome of that incident was that that particular Imam was dismissed from his post of Kaba's Imam.
You might wanna ask the scholars in your area if they would write a fatwa (by their authority) of declaring Shias "Kafir". I would be curious to find out....
Najim sahib,
I am glad to hear of your opinion, i.e., of sacrificing minor differences to fight against major threats to muslims rather than labeling each other "Kafirs" etc etc.