Shia Muslims Please Define Muttah

[bhenjee]

Re: Shia Muslims Please Define Muttah

@Pathani

^Yeah as if Islam is unified under ONE jamaat or school of thoughts.
If you had any knowledge, you would KNOW mutah is a contract formed just as Niqah. The difference is time and conditions. The man is not responsible providing financially. And try not to write in BIG letters, dont shout, thanks! Make your point peacefully…

Are Sahabas not human? They were bashar just as rest of the crowd. Its so typical to portray sahabas or even prophets pbut as if they didnt have any sex drive? (We would exalt as human beings, if we strived for perfection…)
And if (none time based) niqah was done so easily as you think, nobody would remain divorcée or widow? Did you feel the urge to to think out side your narrow conservative mind for once?
I am not going to refer URLs under any condition. Google as rest of the world does, bhenjee. Take time out and do research, instead of clinging to your “understanding” of Islam. I deny to wave banners for other sects or websites.

Islam is more than just one firqah… and thanks heaven for that.

Yes, as nurse I get to face a lot of different cases. This is yet another taboo, just as majority of people believe elders dont have the need of intimacy etc. And I am to become sexologist in future, so I dont have any phobia related to the issue. There are many couples of Muslim origin having problems when it comes to intimacy.

So summa summarum: for some mutah is equal to time based niqah.

Let me clarify one thing. I am not “in” for mutah. I regard it as a choice between plague and cholera. Im a realistic human being and I dont judge any regardless whatever decision they make in their lives. Some can live with the fact they have done mutah, others cant. Its also a matter of temperment.
Mutah is looked down upon regardless country or society. (I dont think, most men can refrain from boasting they have “had” a woman)

A poem:
Insaan jeetay jee khataoo sey kar ley tauba?
Majburiooney kehiin farishtay banaay…

Since this thread is from the old archives, it means its done by the hands of a moderator/admin/team. I dont have more to say this in regard. Period.

ok so pathani, first n foremost, MY UPPER-CASING WHAT I WROTE WAS SIMPLY MEANT TO ACCENTUATE MY POINT. my intent was definitely not to YELL upon your person, however, if that’s how you read it/ want to read it, be my humble pest..

secondly, the conservative, narrow-minded sunni muslim that I am, the one and only definition to my faith is the kalma Tayyab. FOR ME, anyone who negates the finality of that kalima, definitely falls outside the category of being a ‘muslim’.

sooo000OOOooo, back to my conservative, narrow-minded sunni muslim thinking, mutaah seems to be a legal contract of convenience which allows you to sleep around. my point being, who’re you really kidding over here??! Allah???

and pathani, please feel free to refrain from getting personally defensive on this argument. noone’s pointing fingers at you, so don’t make a mountain out of a molehill.

and yeah, i did google ‘mutaah’… nothing laudable came out. nothing in a language that i could understand in the least… and most importantly, nothing from a credible website. and hence, i asked you to enlighten the rest of us with proofs and facts and statements.
u can see for urself: Google Search

and that is exactly why controlling your ‘nafs’ is the biggest test from Allah. that totally does not mean that you bend and twist the teachings of Islam to serve your purpose! if that were the case, masturbation and orgies n wat not wudve been promoted in our religion anyways. I’m sure Allah was aware of the ‘sex drives’ of us mortals when we were created.