A girl dates a guy for first time in her life…she finds out after 6-9 months of seeing each other that he cannot go on anymore. So after sometime she hooks up with her guy friend, 1 year past and they break up again and shes single for couple more months. Same thing happens with the next one. Each everytime, shes getting screwed over by guys who just take what they want and leave her stranded, leaving her all alone. Now only selected kind of guys who dont care about where shes been, date her and use her for whatever. All she wanted da whole time was someone 2 be with her forever. I dont know, this girl sounds like a dumb blonde to me.
But i guess thats what u get for not keeping ur legs closed and brain open. Now, as being a guy if this girl bumped into u and she seemed so innocent and sweet to u, would u deal with a girl whos been through so much? what would u classify her as?
Eventhough the question is directed toward guys, I would like to add on something by asking you a question that how can a guy can leave a woman after making her legs open?
Happens to more girls than we would like to think. It's no use saying anything about the guy or about people who will call her a slut because of what has happened, the only thing she can do is respect herself and stand by herself even when no one else is willing to. Really at the end of the day, what else matters aside from self-respect?
I don't know how accurate your info is about how she going with her boyfriends... lets not judge.
gurls will (almost) always pick a bad boy over a "nice guy".
Nice guys are boring yet stay with you forever.
Bad boys are slick, exciting ...
Ever heared "Nice guys finish last" that holds true in every aspect of life :)
And what about the guys who just fk her and leave? Oh they’re perfect, they’re only being guys, seh’s the one who gets all teh blame and disrespect and called a whore..
I dunno.. it depends on the reasoning behind it, thier intent.. like u said she’s only lookin for love, to care abt someone etc.. and for someone to take advantage of that, to disrespect her and treat her like dirt, they’re snakes, n yes im gonna say it P I G S
But if it 's some grl who doesn’t care, who loves to fk around wit diff guys all the time and stuff, then i’d call her a whore :halo:
Someone who lost her Dignity not only once or twice but number of times How can be trustable to any? She had been fooled around because she did let others to play with her. If I am a guy, I would not take her at all.
yeah.. but FIRST things first, would like to know her and understand that WHY all the guys before me left her…
see your post has very focused, lack of right info in it..so from that i cant really classify her.. guys are more badnaam in these factors, yet 1 after the other, they left her.. so gotta put balance in there..
I'd think she was unlucky...maybe even naive...but we can't judge wot sort of person she is just bcos of wot she does in her private life, that's not fair.
I don't think u can be a "whore" (male or female), just bcos u have had sex before marriage...to me it's when u sleep AROUND, just for the sake of having sex...but if u just happen to have been in several relationships and had sex with those partners, then that's totally different...bcos u had other experiences with that person...feelings, attachment etc...so it's not rite to call someone a "whore" in this situation. It's definately wrong to say "that's what u get for not keeping u legs closed...". U said all that she wanted was to be with someone forever rite, so she can't really be going guy to guy, looking for sex. And maybe, she didn't even sleep with all of them (bcos u said "use her for whatever...") and these guys, we don't know if they r just screwing/playing with her...sometimes, things just don't work out btwn a couple...it takes two to tango, u can't just blame one party.
And marriage has nothing to do with it...u can be a "whore" when married too.
