If she is not working, maybe she cant afford to call. In Pakistan, privacy is a luxury. she might be surrounded by family when u call so cant talk much. maybe u cud buy her a mobile phone and maybe she wud talk more openly to u by having her own phone that she can use anywhere. and then u guys can also send text messages if she doesnt have internet access for yahoo/msn...
the best way to show her that u r not harsh is by being nice to her...like be polite when u talk to her.
No offense, but there is a strong possibility that she might not be a willing participant in this marriage. She might want you to take the hint and call it off. Sounds strange but a lot of this stuff goes on, especially when there is family relations involved. You should have a frank discussion with her about what she thinks of the relationship, and make a decision accordingly. It can save you from a lot of heart ache in the future.
Our relation is secure that's what i m sure & INSHALLAH wil be secure in the future..... Just Pray guys. i M very excited in these days.... i m trying to talk to her ... in these days she is at her sister's home. If i get a chance i will try to call her............. and would say all the thingsss what i feel like if she doesn't call.
Thanks for your sincere Replies.
Just keep going,
Andy
I have another problem .... that though i m engaged for 8 years but i don't think that i love her. How to Devlope love eachother ? i have nobody else in my life...................Need Sincere Suggestion
Exactly,
I am the same kind of person. Most of the time people misunderstand me but don't give me enough time to feel comfortable. Once I do, I am tooooooooo talkative :D
Agree with this again..... This time difference of 8 years is causing this feeling. Once you'll get through this in the next few months, I am sure, you will make a loving couple ...... Don't worry Andy..... You are just fine ....