Re: She makes me so angry
Nadz please GROW UP! You are a mother of two children now and need to stop engaging in childish, petty, revengeful behaviour. Whilst I understand you MIL’s actions have hurt you, you did not hear anything that you did not already know. Since your MIL refuses to be the better person, you need to step up and be it - therefore look after your MIL, make her the tea as your husband has requested so that you can at least please him even if your care and interest is lost on your MIL.
In your husbands eyes his mother cannot do anything wrong. In a child’s eyes a parent is incapable of making mistakes or deliberately hurting someone. Even where there is evidence to the contrary and clearly shows that a parent is a human and will make mistakes we will excuse in whatever way we can in our minds.
No-one is saying you have it easy but sometime you do not make it easy for yourself!
You need to remember that this woman is still the grandmother of your children and you should ensure that you keep a cordial relationship with her for their sake.
Mizsani - I am sorry about what you went through. Nadz just be grateful your MIL actions are petty in comparison to what mizsani went through; she has not to physically hurt you or put you in the way of harm.