She is trying heel/hair (Aeri-Choti) to get him attracted

[diwana]

@redvelvet

Uh…this is odd…(but an improvement from the timidity/rigidness in the bedroom thread). I guess all of the above are applicable. But…in order for the relationship to work, there needs to RECIPROCITY. It shouldn’t just be her showing respect to your family and accommodating to your needs all the time. You need to show her the same consideration. People (regardless of gender) feel more motivated to show some caring…when they see that the other person cares about them as well (in words and actions).

That was for ligitimate, unconditional relationship…You have a great memory!

Here it is about how to entice a man for him to get attracted and be committed.

Agree with rest.

@redvelvet

I listed it as a possibility among others…and not as a be all/end all signal. I even included the exception for it.

OK. Go it.

My point here is to talk about the ways women try to allure men.

I mean, this goes from using technology to their personal assets () to what they find lacking in men to be used as means to grab him.

Not bashing women or praising men here. Not by any means. Feel free to give opposite view.

All I am trying to bring something in to light which possibly other men have experienced…if they did.

There are tricks to make any woman get interested with some assurance

So why not vice versa?