She is trying heel/hair (Aeri-Choti) to get him attracted

[diwana]

@redvelvet

Okay on a more serious note Diwana (so MOds don’t come here and delete the little bit of humor in this thread)…

Here are some ideas (keep in mind that culture plays a role and desi culture is conservative…making it trickier).

1. Does she take an interest in you, your life? /Flow of conversation

2. Eye contact, smiling, etc

3. Proximity

4. Praise

5. As mentioned before…clothing/perfume, etc…can be a means

6. Sometimes playing hard to get even, as Zobi mentioned.

*******Mind you, that some of these signs can also just be friendliness…(personalities vary), and lack of interest can be misconstrued as “playing hard to get” as well.

Please do not talk about 3)

**Playing hard to get is out of fasion by the way. **(Maybe not always)

But as FYI: With so many other choices, both men and women just simply get bored and annoyed by someone playing hard.

They say: OK. Play hard at home by yourself. See ya!

These days: Ask directly:

Do you want me to take you to lunch or I send my parents to your house? Yes or no is expected.

OR

Guy tells gal: Call me whenever you want. If she does not. She loses.

@saint_devil

correction: its funnyeth