Re: Shareef Larki
As the Quran puts it, a shareef larki (or larka) would be someone who protects their private parts. (And yes, kissing does fall into the private part category thing as it LEADS on to more hanky panky)
Not obeying the husband if hes asking her to do something horrible, or not working whatever are just small things, which might be the criteria for people with lesser brains (no offense here)