U asked about … Sharam and baysharam .. right ?
Aaap ko sharam aati hai ? Sunaaaao plz !!
So … There are certain things what u can ask yr friends , not someone else …
and in galz there are certain things what they discuss with their mothers / sisters …
Can u discuss them with some one else ? like yr friends , fathers , etc … ?
Can u wear a mini and tank top and then can u go out on dinner with yr family ?
Can u wear something silly and go out with yr father ?
I am not against the western culture .. its your RIGHT to change with time ..
But not on account of your values !!
I think woman of yr age doing masters living in a cosmopolitan city Khi and studing in IBA asking such question .. what it mean ?
I think we all have right to get attention !
But in some decent way not by talking bennifits of yr body curves or things we are FORTUNATELY blessed by ALLAH !
If you can evaluate yr self .. u will get some answers if not … !
U have the choice … !
Wear what ever u like
Do what ever u like too
Say what ever u like ( dont hurt the feeelings )
DO whatever but not on the account of yr family name , and the values what we inherit …
Otherwise the question you are asking here in the forum .. yr daughter might ask u personally ..
Mom can i wear this mini or maxi and can go out with … .. to have …
(dinner obviusly)
will u like it …
Answer will be the diff between sharam and baysharmi …
I think that post was some other issue and u can read what i said !
Replying in her post !!!
Is that important ?
Well u could also have replied in her post
Can u let yr dear ones ask this question and will u let this go ?
fido that wasnt nice at all
There is nothing wrong in what Soubia has asked so far
she is just curious and wants it explained it to her why ppl tend to live by double standards
Just telling her off like you just did will make her more confused
be nice and polite and explain it to her that in different parts of the world ppl live differently
clothes, culture, religion are not what makes one bay or ba hayaa
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Originally posted by fido:
**assalam u alikum,
well if ask me!
i will say soubia is not worth answering in her post, she is just unbearable....she is ,yep she is one of the reason that i hate girls
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You hate her because she wears jeans and a t shirt??? I am sure that cant be the reason, if it is that is pretty shallow..Can one not be good inside even though wearing jeans?? I have many friends both hijabi and jeansie, in some cases the jeansie ones are better than the hijabi ones and sometimes vice versa..How can you judge someone on their attire?? I dont understand...