Desi_Beautii,
You can play around with the color, style, and print of the fabric to create a more slimming look. For example, darker colors always create a slimming look, especially BLACK…and colors like navy blue, dark brown, dark purple, etc. Lighter colors such as white, light pink will make a big person look bigger.
Also pay attention to the print of the fabric. You want to stay away from horizontal designs and patterns. For example, horizontal stripes make people big people look wider. You should buy fabrics that have VERTICAL stipes/patterns/designs…because this makes you look slimmer and also elongates your body so that you will look taller as well.
Now let’s talk about galas (collar shape). Stay away from collars that are too high and sit close to the base of your neck. Instead you should design your kurtas with deep cut collars. And you should design your kurtas with a deep cut square shape gala or a V-shaped gala. These two shapes are known to create a slimming look. Even t-shirts with a square or v-shaped neck are more slimming. Propper fitting of kurta is important. You don’t want something too tight and you don’t want something so loose.
Slim girls and chubby girls wear the same clothes. They both wear jeans, dresses, skirts. But it’s ALL about finding the type of design that works well for your body. And it’s also about the overall look. For example, if one is on the heavy side…then it’s NOT a good idea to cut your hair really short…because that makes the body look rounder. It’s better to to keep the hair longer with stylish layers, for example. So, even hair style can help to create a slimming look.
Even jewelry and makeup play a role too. You mentioned small eyes. Well, you can make your eyes look bigger by applying light colored eyeshadows. Then, apply eyeliner to the upper lid and apply a coat of mascara as that will open up your eyes more. Lining the inner rim of your lower eyelid with white pencil will also make your eyes appear bigger. Jewelry not only helps to complete a look, it also brings one’s attention away from the body/figure. Have you tried BIG HOOP earrings? They are sooo flattering and outgoing and suit most faces and figures. Even long chandelier earrings are very flattering and help to make a body appear longer.There is nothing wrong with wearing shoes that have bigger heels to appear taller, girls do that all the time.
Lastly, it’s all about confidence. A chubbier girl with confidence and positive/friendly attitude will be more sexy than a skinny girl with zero confidence and a stinky attitude. Carry yourself with confidence no matter what you are wearing and smile…trust me it makes a difference. And realize that nobody is perfect. Even skinny girls are not perfect. One can be skinny and tall and have big eyes…and also a HUGE NOSE. Everybody has something positive in their features. And it’s good to play up the positive features. Do you feel you have pretty lips? Then define them with lip gloss! Do you feel that you have beautiful clear skin? Then play that up. Do you feel that you have beauiful hair? Then style it to your advantage! Do you feel you have a nice nose? Then go ahead and pierce it! Maybe you have nice eyebrows? Go ahead and define them! Everyone is different and its not only about weight, height, and eyes.
Sorry, for the long post. But I hope that it helped. I have posted two links that have clothing tips according to body type and it also advises on what style of desi clothes are best for each body shape.
http://www.shaadiadvice.com/index2.php?view=dynamicPage&pageId=40&PHPSESSID=6dd1c88a4e7373454526d92ade68f280
http://www.mystiqueasia.net/fadsnfashion/index.htm