Re: shall I allow my husband to be a part of my daughter’s life? advice needed
You’re absolutely right about the part in red. Allah gives everyone different circumstances to deal with. Thus, you should remember that birth control isn’t 100% guaranteed. Once married and sexually active, a woman can get pregnant even when not planning on it and using birth control. Allah blessed you by you NOT getting pregnant when you did not want to. But not everyone is so lucky. So unless you’re suggesting that a woman refuse to have sex with her husband until she’s “sure” about her relation….there is no way for her to guarantee that she won’t bring a child into a bad marriage.
Women in Pakistan also face tremendous pressure from family to get pregnant after marriage. Again, you were lucky enough to either not face that pressure OR strong enough to resist it. Good for you! :k: Like you wrote yourself….other women may have different circumstances and deal with it differently.
So when a woman ends up in a different circumstance than you….perhaps it may be a good idea not to assume what was her “fault” and what situation Allah gave her to deal with despite her best efforts to prevent it since you don’t know OP personally.