Re: Shadi preps
usually the in-laws arranges everything for walima, from dress - jewelry. But they usually take the gal with um to get an idea of wht sort of lehga she would like. Well pick a lehga u like and tell ur mother-in-law to get that one for ur walima. Btw has she picked Jewlery and shoes for u too :D. Just go with ur mother-in-law to the bazaar and shop for ur walima with her :)
p.s: the lehnga she got u, put it on fire and tell her it accidently caught fire :D then she would have to go ur way :D