Aik gora hay jo musalaman hona chahtay hay aik larki ke liay take uss se shadi kar sakay.
Sawal: kia sirf shadi ke liay musalam hona jaiz hay??
i think that we are no one to judge the "imaan" of a person...
Where's the judging?
I think yes but provided that the guy lives like a Muslim and follows Islam till he dies.
If he takes the shahaadaa, then he is a muslim period.
Allah(swt) will judge everyone.
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*Originally posted by blushing_vision: *
I think yes but provided that the guy lives like a Muslim and follows Islam till he dies.
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There is nothing called ' i think' regarding issues of Islam, especially a fiqh matter such as this we must be sureee inshaallah
I will explain ...
Allah azwjal commands in the Qur'an: "And do not marry the polytheist women until they believe. A believing slave woman is better that a polytheist woman, even though the latter may please you. And do not marry your womenfolk to disbelieving men until they believe. A believing slave is better that a polytheist even though the latter may please you . . ." [Sura Al Baqarah/2:221]
This day all innately good things are lawful for you…Lawful to you are the chaste women from among those who have been given the Book before you. . . ." (i.e. Jews and Christians). in Sura Al Ma'ida (5:6)
it mentions muhsanaat -- chaste females (from ahlul kitaab yaani people of the book);
it did NOT say muhsaneen -- chaste males
We can refer to a hadith now even , zainab had married Abul 'Aas bin Al Rabee' before the advent of Islam. After the true message came, Zainab accepted Islam.
The Prophet salallahu alayhi wasalam ordered her to come over to Muslims and not give herself to her disbelieving husband [At-Tirmidhi].
In Sura Mumtahanah (60:10) . . And if you ascertain that they are believing women, then return them not to the disbelievers. They [believing women] are not lawful for them, nor are they [unbelievers] lawful for the believing women."
I paste just a reasoning given from someone also :
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Apply 'aql (reasoning). Whether we admit it or not, the woman is (generally) the physically weaker of the couple, and the Muslim man can more often than not enforce his will on his non-Muslim spouse by adhering to Islam. The unbelieving man denies Islam and the Prophet's message. Do you think he would allow a Muslim woman to freely practice her sacred devotion? A Muslim man, however, is required to respect the previous prophets and the scriptures of the Jews and Christians. He will therefore not oppress his non-Muslim spouse (if he follows Islam). A Jew or Christian woman married to a Muslim would have her beliefs respected. A Muslim woman married to a Jew or Christian could be maligned.
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i hope this helped in answer to your question, besides becoming muslim for the sake of love or what, his intentions will need to be for sake of Allah ... wallahu alim.
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i hope this helped in answer to your question, besides becoming muslim for the sake of love or what, his intentions will need to be for sake of Allah ... wallahu alim.
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Yahi hum janna chah rahay thay .. keh hona hay to Allah ke liay ho, na ke maqsad sirf larki ho, kal ko larki na rahay to kia yeh bhi mukar jay ga Islam se. Hum aap ki post ka print nikal kar uss ko day dain ge.
Adab.