Shaadi Shuda Buddha

Lifestyle Relationships
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Hi, I have been married for 18 years…question for all out there: what is the single most important element that keeps the marriage going or should I say what makes living happily ever after?

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hhhhhhhhmmm.....u shud b proud of ur marraige...i think wat cud keep a marraige going is..wanting to keep it going:)

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keep the other person happy..be spontaneous..have family times..most of all be honest..take boredom out of your life..!

Lets do it. Lets hit 3m posts in cafe
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shudnt u know dat since u been married 4 18 years ?

Lets do it. Lets hit 3m posts in cafe
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^lol

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why dont u tell us this secret?...since ure married for 18 years, mash'allah.

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**Listening to your partner!...:D **

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single most important element is that you are not single from the last 18 years :)

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so do u feel happy abt those 18 yrs of marriage? if yes, pls tell us da secret.

The Random Thread
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I rcvd a lot of replies, mostly asking me to share the secret of a successful marriage: believe you me, it is not as easy as a receipe for a popular dish. Marriage demands seriousness of the highest order in terms of commitment, care and devotion for each other. Love for each other is the only magic which dissolves the sour taste of seriousness this relationship demands and makes the relationship succeed.

So here's the KARWA SACH: Why some marriages break and some don't: well I am no scholar by any standard, but what I have learned after 18 yrs of marriage is that we all carry some degree of love for each other and if love fails to measure up to the level it takes to dissolve the seriousness of this relationship, it fails.

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I rcvd a lot of replies, mostly asking me to share the secret of a successful marriage: believe you me, it is not as easy as a receipe for a popular dish. Marriage demands seriousness of the highest order in terms of commitment, care and devotion for each other. Love for each other is the only magic which dissolves the sour taste of seriousness this relationship demands and makes the relationship succeed.

So here's the KARWA SACH: Why some marriages break and some don't: well I am no scholar by any standard, but what I have learned after 18 yrs of marriage is that we all carry some degree of love for each other and if love fails to measure up to the level it takes to dissolve the seriousness of this relationship, it fails.

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Thanks for your complements.

I rcvd a lot of replies, mostly asking me to share the secret of a successful marriage: believe you me, it is not as easy as a receipe for a popular dish. Marriage demands seriousness of the highest order in terms of commitment, care and devotion for each other. Love for each other is the only magic which dissolves the sour taste of seriousness this relationship demands and makes the relationship succeed.

So here's the KARWA SACH: Why some marriages break and some don't? Well I am no scholar by any standard, but what I have learned after 18 yrs of marriage is that we all carry some degree of love for each other and if love fails to measure up to the level it takes to dissolve the seriousness of this relationship, it fails the relationship.

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Good lesson from your reply: family time is very precious and the other rather challenging task is to keep honesty amongst each other...how true guru!

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ok, cool!! but i guess you could have addressed all the three people in the same reply... ;-) :D