I was thinking Is marriage now a day punishment for Bride & Groom? I mean if we we see/attend marriage ceremony of today, from kidz to elder, everybody is busy in getting prepare for himself/herself. Most of the time are spent by ladies who go to parlour and spend many hours for face make-up while the Bride & Groom are waiting when everybody will be present here to end up all rasm-o-rawaj and finaly they can be at their own.
So guyz! what u think about those rasm-o-rawaj? kiya woh shaadi pr honi chahiyeh ke nahi
Well I think if theres Islamic justification for Rasam or Riwaaj then okay, or if it's not expressly forbidden and the cultural things such as Jewellry and Dress Type/Colour have a purpose then fine let it be so... but riddiculous things like inviting dancers and making a lot of noise and causing a general nuisance to others is not exactly a good thing.
In Pakistan many Shadees are colourfull as the richest try to out-do each other in ever more crazy ways but this should not be overly done in UK where the locals wont appreciate constant drumming for several nights... then again one could argue that UK weekends are just as noisy anyway but still one should not be a nuisance.
But these rasams, sometime created problems like both parties don't agree on any rasam and all happiness turns upside down as sadness for every1. Like dhood pilai rasam where they dhoob is kharab due to any reasons lead an argue betwenn barati and receiver. elder in parties especially women get in argue and make such decision where shaadi hona muskil ho jay. Thats what i'm talking about.
