Is it so bad to flaunt it in public in an understated way, even in our culture? What are your views on this?
come again
haha, very funny, GD
so what's your question and what do you want to know?
Sharmao naheen, bolo kia kahna chah rahee ho? :)
poochna yeh hai ke …
oh never mind!
are you saying it is OK to talk about your sexual feelings and fantasies? This can be a great thread but you have to define your objectives first. If you are feeling shy, then I guess the answer to your question is NO.
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Well Sweetpie, it depends on what your idea of sexuality is in the first place. What do you mean by flaunting it ... in an understated way?
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Well Sweetpie, it depends on what your idea of sexuality is in the first place. What do you mean by flaunting it ... in an understated way?
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I wish she undestands how eagerly are we waiting for her to speak out that flaunting thing!!!!
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*Originally posted by Capricorn: *
I wish she undestands how eagerly I am waiting for her to speak out that flaunting thing!!!!
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oh boy i understand for sure ;) haha
Oh boy, wish girls understand this the same way you do;) 
Re: Sexuality
oh boy, I think i have to take some english lessons because i have no idea what you mean by this 
Re: Re: Sexuality
Take some classes in culture as well as she has dangerously mixed flaunting with it. You need to gear urself before u come back and satisfy her with your considered views she has requested 
I guess my question, in part, has to do with the acceptance in our culture of sexual signals to members of the opposite sex. For example, let's say that a Pakistani girl is playing with her hair and gazing at a Pakistani guy that she is attracted to, will this be likely to be viewed negatively by him? Or let's say that a Pakistani guy makes a decent amount of eye contact with a Pakistani girl assuring her of his interest in her. Will this be taken as an offense on the girl's part?
What is an acceptable limit as far as flirtation goes with the opposite sex in our culture? I think that is the bottom line query.
^ Sorry to dissappoint you ma'am but chaaraybaazi is not acceptable in our culture. You need to find another way to find a guy. Playing with your hair won't help
I'm not the one doing the playing...DUH! :o
From the little experience I have had with Pakistani girls, I always got a very positive response from eye-flirting. I find Pakistani girls to be masters of aankh mattakkaa. The so called "shareef" sai shareef larki is OK with stare exchanges. To me, running fingers thru hair and stuff is all acceptable and I would not think any less of the girl. Also, it is not unusual for a Pakistani girl to come upto you, say in a hotel function, and ask you for some directions - knowing well you don't work there. This has happened to me a few times. First I thought maybe I look like a bellboy or something but then the muted giggles seconds later cleared any doubts.
Guys get away with a lot in our culture. But he is considered decent if he limits it to eye contact and maybe a couple of one-liners. Too much showing of the teeth or whistling would really turn off a Pakistani girl, in my opinion.
Are most pakistanis as inexperienced as you lot? Playing with hair? What are you 13 yrs old? What are you going to do, Pass a note in class next?
Matsui, you didn't read the post once again. This is for "cultured" people. Not those who copy hollywood flicks and it's one liners on every Jane, Jill and Jody in a Manhattan bar.