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I like this nick.
u dropped the guard too early mate 
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It's alright, just don't want the wifey reading my other posts.
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this is a therki thread.it should be locked.muslim men and women dont intermingle/dicuss specially on a Fohosh topic topic like this one.the thread should be locked with immediate effect.
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Who is seef?
And who is this blunt character? 
sounds like someone messing around
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it prob down to the lack of sex education for the ladies in the east, cultural does play so does education
diwana, men AND women have testosterone. That's what creates the sex drive in both genders - the more the testosterone the higher your sex drive. And also makes women hairy. Have you seen how hairy us Asian women are? Case closed my friend!!!
It is not that simple. I am not going to give medical literature evidence here which will be beyond the scope of our discussion but few points deserve to be mentioned.
1- Sexuality in people both men and women is not just about hormones.
2- Women have very little amount of testosterone. Giving testosterone to women to enhance their libido has variable results-not predictable results.
3- Those women who have hairy skin are not just Asian women but others too. It is just that due to the hair color is very light, we do not see hair as much on women who are not Asian. Asian women do not have any appreciably higher testosterone than non-asian women. Black men have about 15% higher testosterone than other males.
4- There are other chemicals in women like progesterone which can make hair grow or give masculine features.
5- In terms of libido, psycho-social factors have more common effects.
Sexual drive, arousal, ability to achieve satisfaction has many many reasons in women as well as men.
If need be I can give more detailed info, but I am afraid Mods will have to work hard to edit. :-)
All this stuff about women don't look at porn etc is rubbish. There are female producers that cater just to the female porn consumer.
6- I never said they do not look porn. All I said was it is not commonly approved/accepted/watched by women usually when compared to men.
7- In statistics there is something called Bell Curve. Most women fall in center regardless where they are from. Female producers make porn for those women who like it. Still does not prove these women are common and are everywhere.
8- *I think we are mixing two issues here. Liking the intimacy. romance, sexual activity etc. with liking porn. Two separate issues. *
While a woman would love to do kinky stuff in bedroom with her partner, she would still not approve 'porn' be available on her bedroom TV!
And the thing about women not missing what they've never known is BULLSH*T. Your body will always know what it's missing. Woman have wet dreams just like men so **pretty much all women know what an orgasm feels like even if they don't have a word to put to it. **It's a very selfish attitude to assume that women don't mind about not having an orgasm.
9- No it is not what as you say. How would someone miss something which was not there to begin with?
10- I never said women do not have wet dreams.
11- You are so confident my friend about all women know what an orgasm is like? Simply not true, even if they do not know what to name it.
There are stages of sexual satisfaction and not all feelings of satisfaction in women end in orgasm.
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12- It is not being selfish, it is merely stating the facts. I never said it is OK for women not to have orgasm.** Read my post above I said it is saddening to know that.
A few women have a medical problem that prevents orgasm, same as a few men. But to just assume that a sweet little desi woman doesn't mind you taking all the butter for just your paratha is wrong!!! A selfless lover will always ensure his partner is satisfied and can tell when she's just pretending.
13- How about those studies which mention lifetime incidence of as high as 50% women not achieving satisfaction from beginning to end stages combined?
14- I am not assuming anything there. A lot of women are just happy to get some of the stages of satisfaction without achieving orgasm. I am not approving it or saying, Oh yeah! let her suffer and be deprived of ultimate orgasm.
15- Yes. Agree with your 'selfless lover' comment but women do try to hide and fake orgasm (if you did not know) for many reasons. Its not the selfless lover, its the experienced or observant partner who can tell when a woman is faking!
(not going to discuss the reasons of faking an orgasm or signs of female satisfaction at the moment but will be happy to if asked)
Seriously gents, it's not brain surgery. The perfect combination is when two partners care about each others pleasure and therefore each covers the others needs. Anyone who thinks lovemaking is just sitting back and the other person do all the work needs a slap (applicable to both genders)
Absolutely agree there....except the slapping part! :-)
Funny thread, I have one hell of a time with my wife and she doesn't mind anything I do at all. It just about opening her up to it. Then opening her up again you kno what I mean.
HA HA SEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEF
NOT TRUE. Why do you think guys complain that their wives are not interested in it any more?
Perhaps they are not doing it right.
There are many reasons for women not to be interested however.
Please read my post above for response to 'NOT TRUE'.
Perhaps they are not doing it right.
That is exactly the reason why but unfortunately wives will not admit it to their husbands.
It's that simple, women are more hungry in their 30s. That's when guys start to decrease their libido. The sex gets old and its just becomes a 30 second session for the man.
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30 seconds...
WHAT!!
30 seconds...
WHAT!!
Yeah sorry to break it to you. I know all the macho men are going to jump on this quick but it's the truth.
It's gonna suck for you since you look like an active type.
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I'm going to die an alcoholic, aren't I?
That is exactly the reason why but unfortunately wives will not admit it to their husbands.
It's that simple, women are more hungry in their 30s. That's when guys start to decrease their libido. The sex gets old and its just becomes a 30 second session for the man.
There seems to be two peaks for women.
1- Teenager to early 20's.
2- They become calmer after this, then the surge appears in 30's.
Actually in late 30's to early 40's when they fear of losing female-hood.
But this is not a rule. There are always exceptions to the rule or usual.
There are women in 50's and 60's who are really 'Khuwaar'- the word someone mentioned above.
And about men, Most men do not lose their interest until very very late. In fact when they get to 40 and above, in order to try to compensate for their fear of losing it based on lack of knowledge, and hence they try to hit any woman who comes across their way and get excited. (useless and unnecessary overcompensation since men do not have menopause!)
There is a saying: Man and Horse never get old.
Again exception to this does occur.
Addendum:
Before I hit the save button you had some discussion about 30 seconds with PCG.
Let me comment on it.
Both women and men when excited enough can get climax very quickly.
In fact if a woman is very very excited, she may even get to the end of story before the man get to do anything. Remember someone telling us the reality of wet dream? I agree with that.
Now men have a bad scenario here:
1- Men cannot fake or hide orgasm.
2- Men are considered losers, inconsiderate, in-experienced, fool, less macho if they get to achieve satisfaction quicker than woman.
But it is not true. Even though women may be disappointed at times, they still feel happy to have their partners happy.
(Awaiting for PCG to throw shoe at me and ducking! :-) But it is still true what I said)
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Nah there are still alternatives in case you aren't satisfied.
There seems to be two peaks for women.
1- Teenager to early 20's.
2- They become calmer after this, then the surge appears in 30's. Actually in late 30's to early 40's when they fear of losing female-hood.
But this is not a rule. There are always exceptions to the rule or usual.
There are women in 50's and 60's who are really Khuwaar as someone mentioned above.
And about men, Most men do not lose their interest until very very late.
There is a saying: Man and Horse never get old. Again exception to this does occur.
Ok fine but a male's prime is in his 20s and for women it's in their 30s. That's what the statistics show. So when a couple gets into their 30s. the wife will be wanting it more than the guy. Not only that but the guy will probably get tired or bored of doing the same woman over and over again. There are variables obviously. But I think for the most part, that's usually the case.
There are guys who are able to keep their wives happy (like myself) and there are those who cannot and blame it on their wives (like the OP). A women doesn't complain about sex, unless she isn't satisfied.
its just becomes a 30 second session for the man.
You're generalizing.... NOT TRUE
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It's a two way street. Women are not going to be happy if their partners don't work with the to make sure that at least most times they can have their orgasm
true many women dont even know what it feels like. And therein lies the human tragedy.
Ok fine but a male's prime is in his 20s and for women it's in their 30s. That's what the statistics show. So when a couple gets into their 30s. the wife will be wanting it more than the guy. Not only that but the guy will probably get tired or bored of doing the same woman over and over again. There are variables obviously. But I think for the most part, that's usually the case.
There are guys who are able to keep their wives happy (like myself) and there are those who cannot and blame it on their wives (like the OP). A women doesn't complain about sex, unless she isn't satisfied.
Yes. Except the part you mentioned about OP.
But most women do not complain directly either. They show it by indirect ways.
Most commonly they **nag **about everything, show displeasure about men doing something or anything in general....even to coming late at home or not helping her in grocery shopping.
It's a two way street. Women are not going to be happy if their partners don't work with the to make sure that at least most times they can have their orgasm
true many women dont even know what it feels like. And therein lies the human tragedy.
Absolutely!