I just finished reading the thread “Sex Before Marriage”. Some of the replies to it made me curious. I really wanna hear replies from guys on the few questions I ask here. I’m sure guys talk when they’re amongst themselves…and I’m really curious about some points of views that guys have. Yea I know that there are exceptions and etc. And no, none of the q’s below have anything to do with me personally(in case anyone’s wondering).
Would you consider MARRYING a girl if you knew she has had sex(intercourse) already with guys(or even one guy)?
Would you consider MARRYING a girl if you knew that she has had oral sex(not intercourse) with guys?
Do guys(Muslim ones at least) have a very negative view(less respect, think of as being less “decent” etc) of girls who go clubbing?
I know quite a few guys who are Muslims…and who at least say that they want decent, traditional girls…that they don’t like girls who have a reputation for being hoes. YET these same guys hang around with girls who have a rep. for being hoes, who go clubbing regularly etc. Why is that? Are they just hypocrites? Or is it that they will “hang around” with girls like this…but when it comes to marriage, they want someone decent, traditional, doesn’t go clubbing etc? (Yea I’ve tried asking this to the guys I know but never get a straight/honest answer)
1) Would you consider MARRYING a girl if you knew she has had sex(intercourse) already with guys(or even one guy)?
-Yes, if she has changed and truly repented for her actions.
2) Would you consider MARRYING a girl if you knew that she has had oral sex(not intercourse) with guys?
-Yes, if she has changed and truly repented for her actions.
3) Do guys(Muslim ones at least) have a very negative view(less respect, think of as being less "decent" etc) of girls who go clubbing?
-Yes, i do have a very very negative view of girls who go clubbing.
4) I know quite a few guys who are Muslims...and who at least say that they want decent, traditional girls...that they don't like girls who have a reputation for being hoes. YET these same guys hang around with girls who have a rep. for being hoes, who go clubbing regularly etc. Why is that? Are they just hypocrites? Or is it that they will "hang around" with girls like this...but when it comes to marriage, they want someone decent, traditional, doesn't go clubbing etc? (Yea I've tried asking this to the guys I know but never get a straight/honest answer)
-Yes these type of guys are hypocrites.
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Pyaar Bhi Zindagi Ki Tarah Hota Hay.
Hur Mor Asan Nahin Hota, Hur Mor Pay Khushi Nahin Milti;
Pur Jub Hum Zindagi Ka Saath Nahin Chortay To Pyaar Ka Saath Kyon Chorayn
What do u mean by Repented her actions ?
Why shud a women repent? What if u guys go do a woman before marriage, now how wud u feel if ure wife asked u to repent..
How bloody demeaning can this get?
Bloody Men!
1) NO, repent or don't repent. that's between her and her god. But if I liked her that much then u never know.
2) as above.
3) No, I don't know their circumstances so won't judge these girls
4) I would like to get the answer myself as I have seen exactly the same that they go out with girls but when it comes to marriage they openly say they would only go for "zero metre" from Pakistan.
All of the above EXCEPT ORAL SEX…i dont know b/c i had never heard of it till latelly culturally ..Its somthing i could never think of even & i cant get it pass my mind.To me …it puts human boy or girl into category of uncivilized barbaric animal.I know some girls confess to like the taste & drink ..i find that aborring .Sorry ..i think i am culturally immovable on that !!!
Azad Munna.. where did you live that you never heard of Oral Sex??? And why is Oral sex worse than sexual intercourse??? Thats weird??? Why is it abhorring??
Dear reza… you ca’nt enforce upon others your thesis and antithesis, when you do’nt know yourself what is right or wrong!
Grow up man and breathe in an open enviornment!
Do’nt pass judgments as its not your job!
Take it easy.
Anythin which sometimes carries URINE ,the waste ,product of all dirtiest nitrogenous products except for uncivilized hindu no civilization past ancient hinduism doesnt want to drink.And girls like its taste ??