SEX! Now that I have your attention, I have some questions.

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then getting romantic with a girl you are not married to is haram, im sure you at least know this

anyhow

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What is your definition of being romantic @ShahreyarKhan](http://www.paklinks.com/gs/members/shahreyarkhan.html)

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Yeah I was young when I watched them. Thought they were cool :D but now its like, meh

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Yes please define what romance is to you. I'm pretty sure you and me have different understandings of the word.

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lol...
My SOs friends are 25+ and they still watch it my guy doesn't though too busy with work, family, me and sleep.. lol

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please provide respective definitions of romance..

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I'm kind of in the same boat. Life has taken over :( But I still have Naruto eps 1-200 on my laptop LOL

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now thats a lot o.O!

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Discussing with your fiance personal feelings about each other. A conversation you'd rather not others hear.

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same as above :)

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first of all there is no MY definition of romantic/being romantic/etc - if even there is, it would be completely absurd to judge you based on my definition of; so here we are talking about the definition that everyone understands and accepts

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Romance_(love)
e.g. the definition CC just mentioned above

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She is being romantic by blushing. You should be proud that she is this way. Some people will give an eye and a tooth to find a girl like her, in this day and age

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Buy her a nice new kitchen :chai:

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romance can be having an icecream together.
romance can be her sending you a surprise gift or giving you a surprise call to cheer you up.
it can be sharing your stories and discussing people and gossiping together:p
it can be praising her for something or viceversa!

that should be enough romance for now:)
and be glad you got a sweet girl there!
and dont ask for more:p

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Look at the title. lol

Dude, seems like the only thing your mind is "sex". Not impressive.

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bus bhi karoo.....

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You wanted a Pakistani blushing bride, so you got one. That's the way many are. That's the cultural ideal. Girls aren't supposed to "know" anything -- if she knows about sex -- real sex -- why, then how would she have gotten this information? She would be considered be-huda even to know such things, much less to talk about them. Sweet and innocent is what you asked for, right? Really, the conversations between girls and guys in Pakistan are at about what is typical at middle school level in the west. People in Pakistan and India get their concepts of romance and relationships from Bollywood. Think about the heroines and the romances of these movies: that's how Pakistani girls think they should behave. Also, remember she may not have had a lot of opportunity to speak with non-family guys and therefore is not completely comfortable talking about intimate things with you. You are used to Australian gender dynamics. You don't get that with Pakistani girls.

And anyway, her job is to keep you panting and impatient, and it seems to be working.;)

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to the OP,

what’s with the title ?! you could have gained attention even without it …infact most threads in Life1 get their due attention anyway :hehe:

to me your idea of romance does seem to go only down that road and that too ASAP !

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ji ji bilkul.

On one side you’re saying Pakistani girls act shy etc and on the other side you’re saying they learn from Bollywood.

I thought Bollywood was all about behayaee. :confused:

I think they need an upgrade to Hollywood movies or may be something like that?

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CoughCough, you sound like a reasonable guy. **Most **of the advice you get on here will probably end up ruining your relationship, so just stick to what you're doing, looks like things are progressing well and hopefully will continue to do so. And ignore the holier than thouers.